Author: Milena J. Wisniewska | Last updated: August 29, 2024
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Report highlights: Teen dating violence is a critical issue in the United States, affecting millions of young people each year. Shockingly, up to 19% of teens experience dating violence, highlighting the urgent need for awareness and intervention.
Up to 19% of teens experience dating violence.[1]1.5 million teenagers in the U.S. say they have experienced abusive behavior in a relationship.[2]43% of dating college women report experiencing violence and abuse from a partner.[3]1 in 12 teens face physical, sexual, emotional, or verbal abuse from a dating partner.[4]1 in 4 women who experience physical and/or sexual violence are first victimized between the ages of 11 and 17.[5]Only 9% of teens in abusive relationships report the abuse.[6]Kids who witness abuse between their parents are 15 times more likely to enter an abusive relationship themselves.[7]Stalking behaviors are alarmingly prevalent, with about half of all teens reporting they've been stalked or harassed.[8]
How Many Teens Will Experience Dating Violence Before Leaving High School?
Dating violence is an unfortunate reality that affects many teenagers during their high school years.Â
Up to 19% of teens experience dating violence.[9]1 in 12 teens who reported dating during the 12 months prior to a 2019 survey had experienced physical dating violence.[10]One in four female and one in five male victims report that their first victimization occurred before the age of 18 according to a broader CDC survey conducted in 2016/2017.[11]Approximately 26 million teenagers experience some form of dating violence before graduating from high school, according to a CDC survey conducted in 2016 and 2017.[12]Approximately 1 in 9 female and 1 in 36 male high school students have reported experiencing sexual dating violence according to data from 2023.[13]A total of 17% of LGBTQ+ students have been forced to have sex at some point.[14]
What Percentage of College Women Report Having Experienced Violent or Abusive Dating Behaviors?
When considering the percentage of college women who report experiencing violent or abusive dating behaviors, the statistics paint a stark picture.Â
43% of dating college women report experiencing violence and abuse from a partner.[15]57% say it is difficult to identify and 58% say they don’t know how to help someone who’s experiencing it.[16]One in three dating college students has given a dating partner their passwords and these students are more likely to experience digital dating abuse.[17]One in six (16%) college women has been sexually abused in a dating relationship.[18]
How Common Is Dating Violence in U.S. Colleges and Universities?
Around 20% of undergraduates report experiencing physical dating abuse, with many more enduring psychological dating abuse.[19]
What Age Group Experiences Teen Dating Abuse the Most?
Teens aged 15–18 are more likely to experience psychological and sexual abuse than those 12–14 years old.[20]
What Percentage of Adolescent Victims of Dating Violence Seek Help?
Only 9% of teenage victims seek help after experiencing dating violence, according to a 2019 report from the Journal of School Health.[21]
How Common Is Stalking Among Teens?
Stalking is an increasingly serious issue among teens, often involving repeated, unwanted attention that can threaten their safety.
Nearly half of all teens report experiencing some form of stalking or harassment.[22]About 7.5% of high school students report being victims of stalking, the YRBS 2023 data shows.[23]Broader CDC studies suggest that 15% of adolescent girls and 7% of boys in the U.S. experience stalking behaviors.[24]
How Is Technology Affecting Rates of Teen Dating Abuse?
Teen dating violence can take place anywhere, including cyberspace. When dating violence is perpetrated using technology, such as instant messaging and social media, it is referred to as cyber dating abuse (CDA).[25]
CDA involves practices like posting embarrassing photos/videos and intimate messages without consent, with the purpose of humiliating and defaming the person.[26]
According to a 2023 study, roughly 1 in 3 teens experiences cyber dating abuse while nearly 1 in 4 perpetrates it.[27]About 28% of students in a relationship in the previous year had been the victim of digital dating abuse.[28]Males were more likely to report having experienced it (32% compared to 24%).[29]CDA is strongly associated with other forms of dating violence, sexual assault, and bullying.[30]Victims of sexual cyber dating abuse were 7 times more likely to experience sexual coercion.[31]
Are Teens From Low-Income Families More Likely to Experience Dating Violence?
American teens across the country are facing alarmingly high rates of abuse in their dating relationships, and the economic downturn seems to be making things worse.Â
Nearly half of all teens from families who’ve struggled financially in the past year report witnessing abuse between their parents.[32]29% of teens whose families faced financial difficulties reported being victims of dating violence.[33]Nearly 1 in 2 teens from financially struggling households reported physical abuse by a dating partner, compared to 1 in 4 teens from economically stable families.[34]61% of parents whose families faced economic challenges admitted they had a limited understanding of teen dating violence, and most did not believe their teens would experience it.[35]Only 1 in 3 teens who experienced dating violence and came from economically struggling families informed a parent or trusted adult about the abuse.[36]
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